Apr 172013
 
3 Great Traits of Insanely Loving People

You may know of my life theme to promote conscious acts of kindness as a daily practice. The idea is for you to actively take kind, compassionate actions day in, day out as a way to promote not just greater well-being in the life and soul of the recipient but in you too. My mission [...]

Mar 272013
 
A Gentle Bulldozer:  Leading with Empathy

Is it possible to be a leader who gets results — and show your caring? The secret is to blend two different aspects of emotional intelligence, so you can unleash your “gentle bulldozer;” the Six Seconds Model provides a practical framework to do so. The first step is tuning into your…

Mar 162013
 
Choosing Your Weapon

A very dear friend of mine has been battling cancer for a year now; it’s been both painful and beautiful. The beauty comes from the elegance of how he handles adversity and chooses to continue living life to its fullest with empathy and emotional intelligence. What are the “weapons” he’s choosing for this battle? What do we each wish to choose?

Mar 062013
 
Connecting with Patients:  The Basic Ingredient of Care

As the pace of healthcare increases, empathy is becoming scarce. Yet research shows that empathy actually may save time – and save lives. The learnable skills of emotional intelligence may be an essential ingredient in supporting providers to meaningfully and effectively connect with patients.

Feb 272013
 
87 Ways to Be Kind and Loving

Grrrr. Sometimes it feels impossible to be kind and loving, don’t you think? We get so angry and frustrated at events happening in our lives that we cannot access that loving place inside of us. Instead, our eyes go from side to side as our fists clench and minds whirr with angry thoughts. Some of [...]

May 082012
 
Is compassion "nice" or "need"?

I was speaking on a panel a few years ago about development.  The other panelists were focused on meeting needs such as food and shelter, what we often call “basic needs.”  Is emotional intelligence also a basic need?  To answer, consider:  What happens if people don’t have the skills to make good decisions, to connect [...]

Feb 062012
 
Whose Shoes Do You Need to Shine?

I remember as a small child anxiously awaiting the arrival of my dad from work.  My siblings and I always knew when he was home.  Not because of the sound of his car, but rather, because of the sound of his voice broadcasting over the television; interrupting our favorite after school program. In a low [...]