Recognizing Patterns

The ultimate value of life depends upon awareness and the power of contemplation. ~ AristotleRecognizingPatternsShell

Recognizing Patterns is one of the core competencies of “Know Yourself” in the Six Seconds Model.

Definition: Acknowledging frequently recurring reactions and behaviors.

Importance: Sometimes people assess new situations and respond carefully and thoughtfully, but frequently they run on autopilot, reacting unconsciously based on habit. In part it’s
because the human brain is wired to form and follow neural pathways. Left unconscious, these patterns can inhibit optimal performance because they are a generalized response rather than one carefully tailored to the current situation.

Recognizing Patterns helps you track and monitor your reactions – which is an essential step to managing them. Recognizing your own patterns will also help you see others’ – which will be invaluable in coaching others so they get off of autopilot as well.

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Sneetch Marbles - Sneetch Marbles, Inc. is a dynamic training module to improve team performance and emotional intelligence

EQ for Families: Accountability Workshop – Help parents teach their children to make more conscious, conscientious, and effective decisions.

 

Videos…

What is the Reaction Cycle with Joshua Freedman

How do I begin to recognize my own patterns? by Joshua Freedman  

 

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Other Resources

Six Seconds Hijacking by Joshua Freedman

Jonah Lehrer, “How Habits Hold Us” about psychology of habits and change.

The Connectome: Breaking Ideas in Neuroscience 

Patterns of Your Thoughts with neuroscientist Moran Cerf

Christopher deCharms: A look inside the brain in real time

 “Mindfulness” by Ellen J.Langer.  About the relationship between our mind state and our actions, and what we choose to pay attention to. 

Project Implicit has a series of tests you can take to identify some of your own stereotypes.  Participating also adds data to the project.  https://implicit.harvard.edu/implicit/

In the movie Erin Brockowich, Erin’s pattern is so predictable that her employer decides to have some fun at her expense. Watch the clip, observe both the verbal and nonverbal communication. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mKgy5W3S6nw

 

About the author - Jenny Wiley

Jenny is one of the Six Seconds Program Managers. She coordinates our certification process and manages the EQ Store.

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