5 Key Insights on Staying Meaningfully Connected

From finding purpose to feeling awe to rethinking certain communication habits, here are 5 key takeaways from our deep dive into connection

By Michael Miller – December 24th, 2019

1. Stay connected to a bigger purpose

Want to live a long, satisfying life? Make sure you have a clear sense of your life’s purpose. Intriguing research studies have found that having a sense of purpose helps you sleep better at night, makes your brain more resilient to diseases like Alzheimer’s, and helps you live almost twice as long as people who don’t. It’s easy to get caught up in the minute details of everyday life and lose connection with your bigger purpose, but a growing body of research suggests that this isn’t something to overlook.

The Secret to a Long Life? A Meaningful Reason to Keep Living

2. Seek out experiences that give you goosebumps 

What’s the secret elixir of connection? Experiencing awe. A growing body of research has found that experiencing awe makes people measurably kinder, happier, and more generous. They feel more connected to others and to causes important to them. In fact, even just remembering an experience of awe has these effects. “The benefits are profound,” says awe researcher Dacher Keltner. “Seek out experiences that give you goosebumps.”

The Secret of Connection? Experiencing Awe

3. Take 3 minutes – or 3 days – to connect with the natural world

As a culture, we’re experiencing a widespread crisis of disconnection, and according to a growing body of research, one primary cause may be a lack of connection with nature. “That’s precisely what we’re seeing in people,” says Ming Kuo, a researcher at the University of Illinois who has been studying nature’s effect on humans for over 30 years. “We know this because we have mounting evidence that when you have a set of people who have a certain amount of access to nature and you give them a bit more, you see better social functioning, better psychological functioning, and better physical health.”

Increasing Exposure to Nature Linked to Empathic Behavior, Less Violence

4. Prioritize connecting with people

The research is clear: strong social connections predict the quantity and quality of our days. “The only thing that really matters in life are your relationships to other people,” says George Vaillant, the longtime director of the Harvard Grant Study. So in an era marked by loneliness and superficial connection, how can we build the connections we need to thrive?

Best Friends, Baristas and Book Clubs: The Surprising Science of Social Connection

5. Sustain positive connections with healthy communication patterns

Communication in the workplace is a constant challenge. Fortunately, research on emotions and the brain has helped clarify key communication tools to sustain positive connections, even during difficult conversations. This series of articles offer tips for finding the perfect balance of clarity, accountability and compassion.

Accountable Communication: The 4 Questions to Ask Yourself

Three Tools for Workplace Communication

How to Fire Someone with Emotional Intelligence

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