The Emotional Intelligence Livestream #24

 

Coaching for Change

How can coaches use EQ for transformation?

Ideally, coaching is a transformational process, building internal capacity to create change in the world. Coaching is more than “conversations,” and different than “mentoring” and  “training” because it’s a partnership for growth. In this vision, coaching manifests a new form of “power with,” and couldn’t that help us build a better world?

That’s the vision, but what’s the reality? Coaching is sometimes superficial, transactional, and wandering. Coaching should be a unifier, but sometimes it fails to be culturally responsive and grounded in social justice. Is it possible to live up to the vision… and what would that take?

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Join an honest conversation about the opportunities and struggles of becoming a coach, and how we reconcile the practicalities of this work with Pursuing our Noble Goals by being coaches.

Panelists:

Paul Cheetham is a business coach in the UK, providing emotional intelligence coaching and training services to businesses and individuals. He is also an HR professional, and the Wellbeing & CSR Manager for Tombola, driving employee wellbeing and managing charity activity/partnerships. 

Reem Bahkeet is a coach, consultant and scuba instructor based in Saudi Arabia where she works in business, education and in the community. Reem is also cofounder of Trochet (named for trash + crochet), a ecobusiness turning trash bags into art. 

Joyce Zhang, is a PCC coach and served as an HR professional for 25 years, with 20 years managing managers, familiar with all HR disciplines particularly in partner business, learning & performance, people & organization development. As a PCC and Six Seconds EQ Practitioner and EQ Coach, Joyce leads projects and workshops to inspire change and develop teams and individuals in a multinational company; she is Global Advisor Organization Development at Evonik Specialty Chemicals (Shanghai) Co., Ltd.

Moderator: Joshua Freedman, cofounder and CEO, The Six Seconds Emotional Intelligence Network, working since 1997 toward a world with more EQ. Josh is a Master Certified Coach and author of the best-selling At the Heart of Leadership, as well as four other books and six validated emotional intelligence tools.​

Key Questions:

  • What’s one reason you believe coaching is transformational?
  • How are people in your part of the world responding to the idea of coaching?
  • When you’re talking to business leaders about coaching, what gets them on board?
  • In your experience, sometimes coaching is WOW and change seems to unfold… other times it drags. What’s the secret ingredient to coaching for change?
  • What’s the difference between coaching and being a coach?
  • How does being a coach support you to Pursue your Noble Goal?
“It’s as we become more confident that we’re actually able to have more humility and say ‘I don’t know’ and therefore I can be curious” – @EQjosh of @6s_EQ
“Coaching is a learning process and the skills we’re gaining; but being a coach is when you live it” -@ReemBakheet
“The experience of overcoming the challenge and moving forward gives us energy and a sense of efficacy and capability or agency that I can do another step” -@EQjosh of @6s_EQ
“Curiosity is a very important piece when overcoming some of the cultural differences” – @Paul_EightCoach
“If you hold on to the string of a kite, the kite can rise. If you let go of the string, kite falls down. Inner circle is like holding a string that helps the kite rise. It’s an iterative process” -@EQjosh of @6s_EQ

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