Anxiety is a message that tells us to pay attention… ‘Be ready for what’s coming next’. It’s a helpful message, but sometimes people have too much of that message. They are trying to ‘stay ready’ all the time, and that results in anxiety. Unfortunately, anxiety in children is on the rise, but fortunately, there are techniques to help.
We hope this month’s Mini POP-UP Kit gives you and the little ones in your life some tools for actively increasing calm and lowering anxiety in your life.
According to a 2017 research study, belly breaths (the kind you’ll practice in the activity) are shown to significantly lower cortisol levels AND heighten attention levels.
Kitchen Table Question:
How does it feel when you take a big, deep breath?
Play the ‘Bag Game’ to get your heart rate up. All you need is a paper grocery bag or cereal box. Here are the instructions:
- Place the empty bag, open, on a mat or paper on the floor.
- Standing on one foot, each player must pick up the bag using only their mouth. When they pick it up, they rip off the part that touched their mouth, thus making it lower and lower to the ground as people succeed!
- Once a player’s foot or hand touches the ground, they are eliminated from the game. The last person standing wins!
Now comes the educational part: Ask the kids how they feel after finishing the game. Where in their body do they feel? For example, is their heart beating faster? Are they breathing less deeply and more quickly? Are their muscles tense? While they may not be feeling anxiety right now, the physiological symptoms are very similar to excitement.
Ask them to draw an outline of their body and color in where they are feeling these effects on their body (for example, if the feel their heart beating hard, then they might draw sharp bright lines around the their heart).
Now, they can experiment with how and where they feel these effects. Ask them to close their eyes, sit or lay down, and take five BIG breaths filling up their belly all the way.
Ask them to draw a new outline of their body, and color in how and where they feel now. Discuss the questions below.
Brainstorm times when you feel too much anxiety. When might doing this deep breathing be useful?
How could we signal to each other when one of us needs to take some deep breaths when we are feeling too worried? For example, a code word, body motion, or secret handshake?