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Handle with Care Excerpt: Gratitude

Gratitude is an internal reflection of gifts. It is a feeling that comes from recognizing the worth of energy or materials we receive. This recognition is what makes the gifts have meaning; your internal feeling of gratitude returns gifts of acceptance and acknowledgement to the giver. The cycle is complete and you both have gained.

We tend to thank colleagues, teammates, or parents -- but we often neglect to be grateful to ourselves.


"Gratitude is the most exquisite form of courtesy."
-- Jacques Maritain


Gratitude Activities

  • For one day, recognize the gifts of words and deeds you receive and take a moment to feel grateful; on another day add some expression of your gratitude. What are some differences?
  • Take a walk and count the gifts nature gives you daily. Make a list, and share your observations with family or friends.
  • What was the best advice someone ever gave you? Send the giver a postcard acknowledging the effects of that gift. Be specific.
  • Make a list of your 10 most valued material possessions. For what would you trade them?
  • Create a mind map of all the gifts in your life. A mind map is a shape divided into all the sub-components -- such as physical, emotional, cognitive, material, and spiritual gifts.
  • Ask someone how they would most like to be acknowledged (Publically? Privately? With words, deeds, or objects? What kinds of words?), then acknowledge her/him in that way.
  • In your journal, begin a section called “Thank Me,” and in that section, give yourself thanks each time you take care of yourself, honor yourself, or work to improve yourself.
  • Create a web page with stories of gratitude. Send the URL to staff@6seconds.org and we will make a collection of the pages.

"By appreciation, we make excellence in others our own property."
-- Voltaire


Books/Movies for Older People

  • A Grateful Heart, MJ Ryan. 365 inspiring writings on gratefulness from Buddha to the Beatles, organized by season.
  • Michael -- a jaded reporter is trying to get “the scoop of his life” and finds the miracle of his own heart.
  • Erin Brokovich -- a single parent with three children uncovers a scandalous environmental poisoning that affects hundreds of families, and she builds ties of gratitude.

Books/Movies for Younger People

  • Fireman Small, W. Yee. Grateful friends unexpectedly thank the town’s only fireman for his tireless dedication.
  • Circle of Days, R. Lindbergh. St. Francis of Assisi’s words are brought to life; the natural world is given thanks.
  • Stuart Little, E.B. White - a mouse’s adventures help him appreciate his human family.

Role Models

  • The Sierra Club - founded by John Muir, pivotal in preserving the wilderness and building appreciation of the natural world.
  • Sarah Ban Breathnach – author of Simple Abundance; inspired people around the world toward gratitude.
  • Squanto -- initiated the peace treaty that allowed the first Thanksgiving celebration to occur.

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