Getting Started

Emotional Inteligence means being smart with feelings (and being smart about feelings!) Everyone has emotional intelligence - it's a core brain function that allows us to be effective as social creatures, so this capacity is key to our success (here's evidence). Emotions give us vital clues about what's happening around us, and in us, and they motivate action.

When we're using our emotional intelligence, we read those cues accurately - and we take useful actions. When we're being emotionally unintelligent, we don't (oops!). The good news / bad news is that we all have plenty of chances to practice because life is complex.

To use your emotional intelligence more effectively, here are six powerful questions...



1

What am I feeling - and what does that mean?

Explore the Emotoscope, a free online tool to "scope out" your feelings. Once you select a feeling, the Emotoscope helps you consider what it might mean... and how it's helping you. There's a Facebook version too, which lets you track your feelings over time.


2

How do I put EQ in action?

The Six Seconds Model offers a process for using emotional intelligence to make decisions that are optimal for you and others. Read about the model - or here's a video of our COO intoducing it.

At the bottom of this page you'll find the latest posts from our blogs and article libraries with more great tips.


3


How do I use EQ in day-to-day life?

Read one of our blogs to gain perspective. At the bottom of this page we've posted the latest 10 articles, and here are a few links to get started:

  • EQ Leadership - Leading with a Whole New Mind, interview with Daniel Pink
  • EQ Change - A Hope for Change, interview with Alan Deutschman
  • EQ Motivation (workplace) - The Motivation Iceberg
  • Video: What is EQ?


4

What are my current EQ skills?

Take the SEI - Six Seconds Emotional Intelligence Assessment - to measure your current level of competence and create a roadmap to reach your goals.


5

How do I really "take it up a notch" by learning these skills?

We offer two great ways to develop your emotional wisdom:

Coaching - our certified coaches provide truly outstanding support for you to set and reach your goals, professionally and personally. You'll set up a personal learning plan with specific outcomes and get results. Contact us to get started.

Certification - the EQ Certification is a transformational learning program; people walk out with clarity, stronger skills, and increased commitment. See the schedule of certification training here.


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How can I stay up to date and get involved?

Subscribe to the VitalSigns for EQ newsletter

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Recent Articles & News...

Why Find Compelling Purpose? :: Posted 15 Mar 2010 by Joshua Freedman [in EQ Reflections ]
I’m distressed about purposelessness. The serious companies with whom we consult worldwide have all spent time, and usually a lot of money, crafting a “vision-mission-values” statement. There seems to be some confusion about why. Sometimes, it seems, they’ve made one because that’s what everyone else does.  Something’s just not “clicking” ... (read more)

Purpose and Motivation: Drive Video :: Posted 13 Mar 2010 by Joshua Freedman [in EQ Reflections ]
In the Six Seconds Model, the "capstone" is a competency we call "Pursue Noble Goals," which enables you to connect with purpose in your daily life -- to put your purpose into action. Daniel Pink's video about his new book, DRIVE, provides a fun and clear way of talking about this ... (read more)

Loneliness is Contagious… :: Posted 11 Mar 2010 by Alex Russell [in EQ Connections ]
http://news.uchicago.edu/news.php?asset_id=1796 We've talked before about emotions being contagious. Well, here's a study that was done at the University of Chicago about social networks  that discovered that lonely people actually spread that loneliness to others around them - friends, neighbors, anyone they come into contact with. The most interesting thing about ... (read more)

Fight or Flow in Avatar :: Posted 11 Mar 2010 by Joshua Freedman [in EQ Reflections ]
One of the fundamental choices we each make in each moment is to live in that state of fight or in the state of flow.  As I’ve written before (in this article and in At the Heart of Leadership): FIGHT is characterized by power where the goal is the be right ... (read more)

Relational Power for Women Leaders :: Posted 10 Mar 2010 by Six Seconds [in Six Seconds ]
Deborah Williams Havert, one of Six Seconds team members, presented at at the Columbus State University's Women's Leadership Development Conference last month.  Deborah's session on "Leading With Relational Power" explored the power of the Six Seconds' EQ Model in leadership -- connecting participants with tools to move themselves and others ... (read more)

More From ‘Race to Nowhere’ :: Posted 10 Mar 2010 by Alex Russell [in EQ Connections ]
Here's a posting from the 'Race to Nowhere' Facebook site today: "This week I was struck by a comment at a faculty in-service day recognizing the packed schedule left little time for reflection and processing. This is our kids experience every day, and they come home to more work. Do ... (read more)

Artificial Emotional Intelligence? :: Posted 06 Mar 2010 by Alex Russell [in EQ Connections ]
Make Magazine has an interesting piece on emotionally interacting with a digitally created piece of art in their January 2010 issue. The two links below are the creator’s own website showing the ‘creature’ and then the link to the Make Magazine blurb titled ‘Emotional Aquatics’. The article goes into a ... (read more)

40 Photographs that Show Emotions :: Posted 06 Mar 2010 by Alex Russell [in EQ Connections ]
This was an interesting little personal expedition for me. Here is a site that chose 40 photographs depicting a range of emotions.http://tinyurl.com/cr3p2xI just scrolled though them and had several distinct reactions. First off, I felt the pictures were a little contrived. They're all beautiful photographs designed to elicit reactions. However, ... (read more)

Does Mama Need Surgery Again? :: Posted 26 Feb 2010 by Joshua Freedman [in EQ Reflections ]
A few months ago Patty had routine physical, and her doctor ordered some tests, which came back positive so she needed a biopsy. While statistically odds were strong that it would be a nonissue, we were both a bit anxious - especially because of her cancer scare a few years ... (read more)

The Difference Between What We Know and What We Do – ‘Race to Nowhere’ :: Posted 25 Feb 2010 by Alex Russell [in EQ Connections ]
I hope there’s some talk out there about the film ‘Race to Nowhere’ that's currently traveling around the country. In the interest of getting the word out, here are my impressions. If you’re not familiar with the movie, director Vicki Abeles has made a film about education in the U.S. ... (read more)

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