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    June 7, 2001


    Building Capacity

    June 7, 2001


    Terror struck yesterday when a father said to me, "terrible
    two's are misnamed, two was GREAT! Just wait for three."

    Two, in our family, is proving to be plenty challenging. At the
    same time, I have never experienced something so exciting as
    watching Emma learn to do and be. She is becoming competent
    -- and opinionated. It seems the more she learns to do, there
    more there is to fight about.

    Yet somehow, almost every day, we are working to teach her
    new skills. She and I were cooking pancakes together -- she is
    getting good a cracking eggs (it involves cracking then
    *squeezing* hard... not TOO much shell ends up in the bowl),
    and we worked on stirring.

    Making pancakes took at least half an hour, and I could have done
    it myself in a few minutes. Why? Because Emma and I were
    making something much more complex -- we were making
    pancakes + capacity. Ultimately, Emma will be able to make
    pancakes herself; ideally even better pancakes than we make
    together -- and as long as we're speaking of ideal, they can also
    be served to me in bed along with fresh squeezed orange juice!

    A rather different example -- lately I have been looking at each
    email I answer and deciding if I should write a "template"
    answer that can be used over and over, an article, or if I should
    just answer the email. The goal is to provide lots of good info to
    lots of people -- without having to reinvent the wheel every
    time. So far, I have 10 template emails and have 4 articles in
    the works.

    Building capacity is about doing work in a way that allows more
    work to be accomplished in the future. It is something we all do
    -- as managers we create systems and hire employees; as
    parents we take the time to show rather than doing it ourselves;
    as teachers we build on previous skills to create new ones. We
    can also build capacity for ourselves in our lives and work.

    Perhaps the biggest challenge with capacity building is clearly
    identifying the needs. For example, an organization having
    communication troubles might work hard to generate IT capacity
    only to find that their real need was listening skills.

    When you create capacity you also create new problems --
    there is added complexity. Now that Emma, Patty, and I have
    build the capacity for Emma to put on shoes by herself, she
    won't leave her shoes downstairs (so the sandbox is gradually
    coming inside). When I create "template" emails, I have more
    and more data to manage. When we teach students to be clear
    about their needs, we spend time discussing details. When you
    hire more sales staff, your phone bill goes up.

    The point is, when you build capacity, you are dedicating some
    resources to that process -- you are making and investment
    now to make things easier later... but you want to be sure you
    can use the capacity you build.

    So now that you are convinced not to build any capacity because
    it is sure to be a burden... let's look at the pancake example
    again -- there are some elements that will help you plan other
    capacity-building:
    - Clear need. We definitely will want more pancakes later.
    - Clear lack of capacity. Should have seen how Emma USED to
    crack eggs.
    - Defined task. Make pancakes.
    - Specific subskills. Crack eggs, stir batter.
    - Process for building capacity. Cook with Daddy, make messes.
    - Mechanism to "house" the capacity. Emma.
    - Management of added complexity. Keep eggs out of reach.
    - Time focused on learning. 1/2 hour pancake making.
    - Part of ongoing process. Emma helps bake lots of things.
    - Integration of new capacity. Not yet! Eventually Emma could
    actually make breakfast...

    So here is a challenge for you -- consider an internal capacity
    you want to build for yourself. Perhaps you would like more
    capacity to focus your energy, or to enjoy your stress, or
    connect with the people around you? Pick something "big" like
    that, then use the list above to break it down.

    There is nothing magic about the list, I just made it up based on
    the pancake example -- so as you try out the process, make the
    list better, and send me your refinements. I will collect the
    examples and build our shared capacity for building capacity.

    Warmly,
    -Josh

    This is an EQ Reflection from Six Seconds. Feel free to forward
    so long as you keep this bit: ©2001, Joshua Freedman
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